Truly Strange
Yeah, yeah 2 posts in one day. Very strange. But even stranger still is what I just decided to write about.
Two days ago, I attempted to get the police report on the interviews from Katie’s charges against my 0h-so-soon-to-be exhusband. I called Arapahoe county. They had no records. Not even that they had transferred the case (it was out of their jurisdiction since it happened back in IL). Any sane human being would think that somewhere there would be a reference that they actually did transfer the file and where… No such luck. I eventually tracked it down, and found out the status, and requested the information. The officer said it was unlikely I could get it but the judge would have access to it if she wanted it. So I took the case number and will have it at the hearing.
That’s not the weird part. THIS is the weird part. When I asked the Arapahoe county records to look up the records under Katie’s name, they found only one incident, in the fall of 2002 (happened before the other) while A and I were still together. She said it was a DUI (my heart dropped) but that she was the victim, not the driver. I figured, ok, this is just something Katie didn’t mention to me in her drug crazed days. She wasn’t sharing much with me at that time so it wasn’t really a surprise. So when the clerk didn’t find the records for the charges against A I had her look up under his name. Again there was nothing for the spring of 2003 (she said that if it was transferred it wouldn’t show up at all - stupid). But there was the same case number for the DUI on Katie’s records. And he was the driver. He had been charged with DUI, reckless endangerment, and expired plates. The clerk said the DUI had been dropped, but they arrest people on the spot for that charge. So, how did he get arrested without me knowing? How did he get out? Why didn’t Katie (or any of the kids?) tell me. How did he go to a hearing (where the charges for DUI were dropped) without me knowing? How did I not know about the payments for the ticket.
Insane mysteries that will never be solved. I talked to Katie about it. She says she doesn’t remember. Just plain weirdness. Really makes me wonder just how much happened without my knowledge. And he’s supposedly the victim and I’m crazy? Yikes.
